My last entry was November 2019. To say that a lot has happened since then would be an understatement. I won’t get into all that’s happened here, but what I wanted to share was this. In a recent class I sat in on (also a MAJOR thing that’s changed!), the professor went over and she mentioned this very powerful message that has been really sitting with me ever since.

YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU ACCEPT.

Too many people live their life blaming everything and everyone for where they’re at. Their parents. Their jobs. Their addictions. Their exes. Their financial situations. Their baby mama/daddies. Their traumas. Their kids. The government. The President. The past President. The past. The pandemic. ALL 👏🏼 OF 👏🏼 IT 👏🏼

It’s all an excuse to live your life miserable, alone, unhappy, bitter, jealous and nowhere near where you are capable of being. Well, I’m here to tell you that if you accept that, then you deserve that kind of life. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Look, don’t get me wrong. Life sucks sometimes and bad things happen to great people. But once you realize that you have the power to change your life and live a life worth living, you will take your power back and you will finally be free of this victim cycle.

One of the most powerful quotes I ever had to free myself from being stuck in one of the worst situations of my life was: Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.

What will you decide to accept for your life?